In real life as well as when blogging:
“Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates:
At the first gate ask yourself, ‘Is it true?’
At the second gate ask, ‘Is it necessary?’
At the third gate ask, ‘Is it kind?'”
– Jalal al-Din Muhammad Rumi
From the Forty-Five
There are times when the truth desperately needs to be spoken, even if it is not kind. If you filter everything that someone, somewhere deems unkind, you are left with wokism.